Category: Generosity

A Business Owner’s Guide to Spreading A Season of Generosity

For many of us, December is a season marked by giving. We paused last month to celebrate Thanksgiving and reflect on our many blessings, and now we turn our attention to preparing for Christmas or Hanukkah—holidays that both celebrate God’s goodness to His people.

For those who follow Christ, Christmas is far more than a season of shopping and gift exchanges. It is a time to reflect the love of Christ through intentional acts of generosity. God demonstrated His love through the greatest gift ever given: His Son, sent to live a sinless life and die on the cross to redeem mankind. The journey to the cross began at the manger.

Whether you are a business owner, an employee, or a retiree, you have countless opportunities to show generosity this season and share the love of Christ with those around you. Let these words guide you: “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Acts 20:35

Demonstrating Generosity as a Business Owner

If you own a small business, the holiday season provides unique opportunities to bless your customers, employees, and community. Consider these ideas:

  • Support local organizations.
    Donate funds to groups providing meals, warm clothing, or Christmas gifts for families in need. Let your customers know that their support helped make these contributions possible.
  • Participate in an Adopt-a-Family program.
    Sponsor one or more families as a business, inviting your staff and customers to join in meeting specific needs. You can also adopt a military family through organizations like Soldiers’ Angels.
  • Go the extra mile in customer care.
    Offer cookies and hot cider, provide complimentary gift wrapping, or surprise customers with small tokens of appreciation like ornaments or holiday treats. A cheerful greeting and an extra measure of kindness can make a lasting impact.
  • Offer paid volunteer time.
    Give employees a few hours of paid time off to serve at local holiday programs or nonprofit organizations.
  • Bless your team.
    Show gratitude through thoughtful gifts or year-end bonuses to acknowledge their hard work throughout the year.

Demonstrating Generosity as a Community Member

Regardless of income level, everyone can show generosity during the holidays.

  • Make charitable donations.
    Even small contributions to local nonprofits and faith-based organizations make a meaningful impact.
  • Volunteer your time.
    Many groups need help serving meals, wrapping Christmas gifts, hosting events at shelters, and more.
  • Buy gifts for children in need.
    Programs like Toys for Tots and Angel Tree rely on community generosity—collection periods are ending soon, so take action quickly.
  • Visit the elderly.
    Stop by nursing homes, assisted living centers, or the homes of elderly neighbors. Bring carolers, small gifts, or simply warm conversation. Your presence might be the highlight of their season.

Where You Can Still Give This Season

Many organizations are still accepting gifts, donations, and support:

  • The Salvation Army Angel Tree – Adopt a child in need or donate to the Red Kettle campaign through Christmas Eve.
  • Samaritan’s Purse – Build an online shoebox or donate through their gift catalog to support clean water projects, meals for children, or small-business assistance for families.
  • Toys for Tots – New, unwrapped toys are being collected through mid-December, depending on location.
  • Prison Fellowship Angel Tree Christmas – Donate to provide gifts for children with an incarcerated parent.
  • Feeding America or your local food bank – Help ensure families have food this holiday season. These organizations appreciate support year-round.
  • Christmas Spirit Foundation – Donate to provide Christmas trees for military families separated from deployed loved ones.

A Final Encouragement

This Christmas season, keep Christ at the center of your celebrations and be His hands extended to a hurting world. As you share His love and blessings with others, you demonstrate what it means to follow Him.

“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” John 13:34–35

Stewarding Well: Exercising Self-Control in Spending and Giving

The final fruit of the Spirit is self-control. When we hear that term, our minds often go straight to resisting temptation — avoiding that extra dessert, holding our tongue in a heated moment, or passing up an impulse purchase.

But self-control runs much deeper than momentary restraint. It’s about aligning our actions with godly wisdom and long-term values. In the financial realm, self-control not only guards against overspending but also ensures our generosity is Spirit-led rather than emotionally driven.

It might surprise you that even our giving requires self-control. While the world often celebrates extravagant generosity, the Bible reminds us that not all giving honors God. Some people find themselves in financial trouble, not because they’ve overspent on themselves, but because they’ve given beyond their means — motivated by guilt, pride, or the desire for approval.

True self-control helps us navigate both sides of the financial equation: when to say “no” to unnecessary spending and when to give thoughtfully, as the Holy Spirit leads.

The Dangers of Unchecked Spending and Impulsive Giving

The Bible is filled with warnings about the consequences of poor financial management:

“The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is slave to the lender.”
Proverbs 22:7

“He who loves pleasure will be a poor man; he who loves wine and oil will not be rich.”
Proverbs 21:17

Whether it’s overspending on pleasures or giving to impress others, a lack of self-control leads to debt, stress, and missed opportunities to use our resources wisely.

Jesus cautioned against performing acts of charity for the wrong reasons:
“Take heed that you do not do your charitable deeds before men, to be seen by them. Otherwise, you have no reward from your Father in heaven.”
Matthew 6:1

Generosity should never be a tool to seek validation or soothe a guilty conscience. Spirit-led giving, balanced with financial stewardship, honors God and builds peace in our lives.

Cultivating Financial Self-Control

So how do we grow in self-control? It starts with intentional, Spirit-led living. Self-control is not self-generated discipline alone; it’s a fruit of the Spirit cultivated through prayer, wisdom, and surrender to God’s guidance.

Paul highlights this quality as essential for believers:
“For the grace of God… teaches us to say ‘No’ to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age.”
Titus 2:11–12

And Peter reminds us to actively pursue it:
“For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control…”
2 Peter 1:5–6

Here are some practical, biblical steps to develop financial self-control:

  1. Ask God to transform your perspective on money.
    “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” (Philippians 4:13)
  2. Seek wisdom to establish a spending and giving plan.
    “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault.” (James 1:5)
  3. Let the Holy Spirit direct your charitable giving beyond your tithe.
    “You are to receive the offering for me from everyone whose heart prompts them to give.” (Exodus 25:2)
  4. Pause before making unplanned financial decisions. Ask yourself:
    • Why do I want to spend or give this money?
      • Am I meeting a true need or reacting impulsively?
      • What adjustments will I need to make if I use this money now?
      • Is this Spirit-led or emotionally driven?

If the decision aligns with wisdom and biblical stewardship, adjust your budget accordingly, ensuring you’re not sacrificing long-term stability for a temporary impulse.

The Reward of Self-Control

As you consistently practice self-control in both spending and giving, it will become easier and more natural. The reward isn’t deprivation — it’s peace of mind, financial freedom, and the joy of being a faithful steward of God’s resources.

Self-control guards us against debt, stress, and the temptation to find our identity in material things or the approval of others. And it positions us to give generously in ways that truly honor God.

May we ask the Lord daily to help us exercise self-control, trusting Him to meet our needs and lead us in wise, Spirit-directed generosity.

Discussion Questions:

  1. In what areas of your finances do you find it hardest to practice self-control? How can you invite God into those decisions?
  2. Have you ever struggled with giving impulsively or for the wrong reasons? How can you better discern when and how to give?
  3. What practical steps can you take this week to grow in self-control regarding your spending, saving, or giving habits?
  4. Think of a time when practicing financial self-control brought you peace or helped someone else. How did it impact your relationship with God or others?
  5. How might growing in self-control influence other areas of your life, such as your relationships, time management, or health habits?

Goodness and Money: How Practicing Goodness Can Transform Your Finances

Goodness is the next fruit of the Spirit. While it includes acts of kindness, goodness goes beyond that—it encompasses honesty, fairness, and always choosing to do the right thing.

We display goodness when we use our financial resources to demonstrate God’s goodness and direct others toward Him. To embody goodness, we must first acknowledge that only God is truly good, and that all goodness flows from Him.

God is Good, and He Provides for Us by His Goodness

God is inherently good, and He blesses His children with good things. Recognizing God’s goodness in our lives is key to understanding how we should use our finances. We must thank Him daily for His faithfulness. Psalm 34:8 reminds us:

“Oh, taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the man who trusts in Him!”

1 Chronicles 16:34 echoes this truth:

“Give thanks to the LORD, for He is good; His love endures forever.”

Psalm 107 starts with an invitation to give thanks for God’s goodness:

“Oh, give thanks to the Lord, for He is good! For His mercy endures forever.” (verse 1)

The chapter goes on to highlight how God demonstrates His goodness: He redeems us, protects us, provides for us, heals us, and lifts us out of distress. The psalmist concludes with the call to reflect on God’s loving deeds:

“Let the one who is wise heed these things and ponder the loving deeds of the Lord.” (Psalm 107:43)

Jeremiah 33:9 further illustrates how God’s provision is rooted in His goodness:

“Then it shall be to Me a name of joy, a praise, and an honor before all nations of the earth, who shall hear all the good that I do to them; they shall fear and tremble for all the goodness and all the prosperity that I provide for it.”

God Is Pleased When We Do Good

We honor God when we do good for others, especially by sharing the blessings He has given us. Hebrews 13:16 tells us:

“And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased.”

Demonstrating goodness points others to God’s love. 1 John 3:17-18 challenges us:

“But whoever has this world’s goods, and sees his brother in need, and shuts up his heart from him, how does the love of God abide in him? My little children, let us not love in word or tongue, but in deed and in truth.”

Loving in deed means that we share what God has entrusted to us, including our finances. Failing to do so, particularly when it comes to caring for those in need, is a missed opportunity to reflect God’s love. James 4:17 says:

“Anyone who knows the good he ought to do and doesn’t do it, sins.”

Proverbs 21:13 offers a stern warning:

“Whoever shuts their ears to the cry of the poor will also cry out and not be answered.”

Being Good Points Others to God

Jesus taught His followers in Matthew 5:16:

“Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.”

We let our light shine when we share our resources and show goodness to others. Paul also encouraged the Galatians to persist in doing good:

“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.” (Galatians 6:9-10)

The harvest we reap by doing good will be souls added to God’s kingdom—a true treasure in Heaven.

Conclusion

God has been incredibly good to us, and He expects us to reflect His goodness by doing good for others, especially when it involves sharing our financial resources. By following God’s example, we can trust that He will meet all our needs.

Discussion Questions:

  1. Recognizing God’s Goodness:
    How have you experienced God’s goodness in your life recently? How does recognizing His goodness impact the way you manage your finances?
  2. The Role of Finances in Showing Goodness:
    In what ways can our financial decisions reflect God’s goodness to others? Can you think of a time when you were able to use your resources to bless someone else?
  3. Sharing and Generosity:
    1 John 3:17-18 challenges us to love in deed and truth. What are some practical ways we can demonstrate God’s love through our financial resources, particularly in times of need?
  4. The Connection Between Goodness and Obedience:
    James 4:17 tells us that failing to do the good we know we should do is a sin. How does this verse challenge you to reconsider your approach to generosity and caring for others?
  5. God’s Provision and Trusting Him:
    Jeremiah 33:9 speaks about God’s goodness leading to prosperity. How does trusting in God’s provision influence your decisions about managing money and sharing with others?
  6. Persevering in Doing Good:
    Galatians 6:9-10 encourages us to continue doing good, especially for those in the faith. How do you stay motivated to keep doing good when you feel weary or discouraged, especially when it comes to financial giving?
  7. A Life That Points Others to God:
    Matthew 5:16 says we should let our good works shine before others to glorify God. How can we intentionally use our finances to point others to Christ, both within and outside the church community?
  8. Reflecting on Personal Action:
    As you reflect on your current financial situation, how can you align your use of money more closely with God’s goodness? Is there a specific change or action God is calling you to make?

How LOVE Shapes Our Financial Choices

Love is a word we use frequently, but often in different ways. We say “I love that!” when we talk about food, clothing, or even our favorite vacation spots. While these may reflect strong preferences, they’re far from the deeper, more self-sacrificial love we’re called to show our family, friends, and ultimately, God.

In his paper The Fruit of the Spirit: Love, James Hernando defines love as a relationship term within the context of redemption. He writes, “Love…defines our relationship to ourselves, to God, to our neighbor, and to the members of God’s body.” God’s love is self-giving, intimate, and requires personal involvement. It’s the kind of love that drives us to share our resources—especially our finances—to meet the needs of others.

Love and Giving: A Call to Action in Christian Finances

We demonstrate love in tangible ways when we open our pocketbooks and share the financial blessings God has given us. The Bible is clear about this. In the Old Testament, God commands the Israelites to care for the poor: “For the poor will never cease from the land; therefore, I command you, saying, ‘You shall open your hand wide to your brother, to your poor and your needy, in your land.’” (Deuteronomy 15:11) Similarly, in the New Testament, John reminds us that the love of God isn’t just a feeling; it’s actionable: “But whoever has this world’s goods, and sees his brother in need, and shuts up his heart from him, how does the love of God abide in him?” (1 John 3:17)

You might be thinking, “I work hard for my money. Why should I sacrifice my earnings for others?” The answer lies in understanding the depth of God’s love for you. He loved you so much that He gave His only Son to die for you. Jesus’s love was sacrificial—it cost Him everything. Our love should reflect that same generosity, both spiritually and financially, as we strive to honor God with our money.

Intimacy in Love: A Heart Connection in Financial Stewardship

God’s love is intimate. Hernando writes, “Intimacy involves close personal interaction resulting in commitment, emotional bonding, and mutual care and concern.” Jesus modeled this intimacy with His disciples—He spent time getting to know them, understanding their needs, and responding with love.

As we grow in love, our relationships deepen, and we naturally start to care for others, not just emotionally, but practically, including financially. This was evident as the early church met daily to pray, fellowship, share meals and meet one another’s needs. “Now all who believed were together and had all things in common, and sold their possessions and goods, and divided them among all, as anyone had need.” (Acts 2:44-45) Christian stewardship means being generous with our resources to help those around us.

Avoiding the Love of Money: A Biblical Warning

As we mature in the Fruit of the Spirit, we become less attached to money and more devoted to loving God and others. Jesus warned that it’s impossible to serve both God and money: “No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.” (Matthew 6:24, NIV)

The love of money can harm our relationship with God and create all kinds of problems. “For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil, for which some have strayed from the faith in their greediness, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.” (1 Timothy 6:10) Money, when idolized, becomes a barrier to a relationship with God and others. It can even destroy relationships, as people prioritize wealth over love and well-being.

Loving money leads people away from God and into many types of sin.  “For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy.” 2 Timothy 3:2 The sins depicted in this verse are attitudes that destroy relationships with God, family members, and friends.  As these attitudes take root in a person’s heart, he or she may go to great extremes to get more money. For some this involves sacrificing their families and relationships to seek promotions and raises in order to earn larger salaries and achieve more status.  Others violate the law to gain more money.  Stealing, fraud, tax evasion, identity theft, and robbery are just a few of the ways that greedy people try to gain more money.  No matter how much money they obtain—either through hard work and ingenuity or through theft and crime—lovers of money will never be satisfied.

Despite what culture tells us, money can never fulfill our spiritual and emotional needs. “He who loves money will not be satisfied with money, nor he who loves wealth with his income; this also is vanity.” (Ecclesiastes 5:10-11, ESV) Biblical stewardship teaches us that contentment comes not from accumulating wealth, but from trusting God to provide all we need.

Loving Others: A Practical Application of Financial Stewardship

Romans 12 offers practical instructions for loving others, many of which tie directly into how we handle money. Take your Bible or open your Bible app and look up Romans 12:9-15 & 20-21. Discover how some of the instructions apply directly to our use of money:

  • Entertain strangers
  • Demonstrate hospitality
  • Feed and give drink to our enemies
  • Provide for the needy

These actions often require us to spend our resources—time, energy, and yes, money. Christian hospitality doesn’t have to be extravagant, but it does require sacrifice. We are called to share freely, not to impress others, but to genuinely care for their needs.

As you grow in your relationship with God, your heart for others will deepen. Be attentive to the Holy Spirit’s promptings, and seek opportunities to love others with your finances, just as Christ loves you. In doing so, we demonstrate biblical generosity and honor God with the resources He has entrusted to us.

Final Thoughts on Stewardship and Love

As we reflect on how love impacts our finances, we are reminded that it’s not about the amount we give, but the heart behind it. True love—God’s love—compels us to be generous, sacrificial, and intimate in our care for others. Let that love guide your financial choices today, and trust that God will bless your generosity.

Finishing Strong: Essential Tips for Small Business Owners During the Holiday Rush

The holidays can be a stressful time for nearly everyone, but for small business owners—especially those running retail stores—the pressure is even greater. With extended hours, a surge in holiday sales, and a packed schedule, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. But fear not! There are ways to navigate the season smoothly, reduce holiday stress, and ensure your business finishes the year strong.

In this post, we’ll explore practical tips for small business owners to manage the holiday rush, empower employees, practice self-care, and deliver top-notch customer service.

1. Manage Your Schedule to Avoid Holiday Burnout

During the busy holiday season, long hours and high expectations can quickly lead to burnout. As a small business owner, balancing personal and professional responsibilities is crucial for finishing the year strong.

  • Set Time Off: Schedule at least one day off each week (or two shifts) to rest, shop, and prepare for your own holiday celebrations. By prioritizing personal time, you’ll avoid burnout and recharge for the busy days ahead.
  • Set Boundaries: Make it clear to employees what constitutes an emergency that would require their contacting you. Your time off should be uninterrupted unless there’s a major issue affecting the store or customer service.
  • Prioritize Events: Be intentional about which holiday events you choose to attend. Select the ones that matter most and help you stay balanced during this hectic season.

Tip: Utilize an online calendar or scheduling tool to help manage both your work and personal commitments, ensuring you have time for everything—without sacrificing your well-being.

2. Empower Your Employees for Seamless Operations

One of the best ways to reduce holiday stress as a business owner is to empower your employees. By delegating and training your staff effectively, you’ll ensure that both you and your team can handle the holiday rush efficiently.

  • Cross-Train Employees: Equip your employees with the skills to handle routine tasks like answering customer inquiries, processing returns, and offering holiday discounts. This will allow you to step back without worrying about day-to-day operations.
  • Designate a Lead Employee: Appoint a trusted team member to handle non-routine issues. This will give you peace of mind, knowing someone is managing the more complex customer or operational concerns.
  • Delegate Non-Essential Tasks: Assign experienced staff to handle store decorations, window displays, opening and closing procedures, and making bank deposits. By distributing these responsibilities, you empower your team and reduce your workload.
  • Hire Holiday Help: Consider hiring extra seasonal workers to support your team during peak shopping hours. Having backup plans in place for sick days or sudden staff shortages ensures you can provide excellent customer service throughout the holiday season.

3. Practice Self-Care to Manage Holiday Stress

As a small business owner, your well-being is paramount. Managing holiday stress starts with taking care of yourself—physically, mentally, and emotionally. When you take care of yourself, you’ll be better able to take care of your business, your team, and your customers.

  • Take Breaks: Even a short walk or five minutes of deep breathing can help reset your mind and relieve stress. Make it a habit to take breaks throughout the day to maintain focus and avoid burnout.
  • Eat Nutritious Meals & Stay Hydrated: Proper nutrition and hydration are key to keeping your energy levels up during the busy holiday season. Avoid relying on junk food and ensure you’re fueling your body for peak performance.
  • Practice Gratitude: Keep a journal to note things you’re thankful for, and remember to express gratitude to your employees for their hard work. Gratitude can improve mental clarity and reduce stress.
  • Celebrate Small Wins: Acknowledge and celebrate every achievement, no matter how small. Recognizing your successes will help you stay motivated and positive as you navigate the busy holiday season.

4. Care for Your Employees to Foster Team Spirit

Your employees are the backbone of your business. During the holidays, they’re working hard to ensure everything runs smoothly, so it’s essential to show appreciation and support.

  • Encourage Regular Breaks: Promote employee well-being by requiring regular breaks. A comfortable break area with snacks and beverages can go a long way in helping your team recharge during busy shifts.
  • Flexible Hours: Honor employees’ time-off requests where possible and offer flexible scheduling. Flexibility helps your employees balance work with their own holiday celebrations, reducing stress and increasing job satisfaction.
  • Praise and Recognition: Publicly acknowledge hard work and exceptional customer service. Offering small rewards or praise boosts morale and motivates employees to keep performing at their best.
  • Holiday Celebrations: Organize a festive lunch or party to allow your team to relax and bond. This will help foster a positive, supportive work environment during the hectic holiday season.
  • Provide Holiday Bonuses: If your budget allows, even a small holiday bonus can go a long way in showing employees how much they’re valued.

5. Take Care of Your Customers for a Stress-Free Shopping Experience

Increased foot traffic and a heightened sense of urgency during the holiday season can make shopping stressful for customers. Ensuring a smooth and pleasant experience for your shoppers is critical for maintaining customer loyalty and driving holiday sales.

  • Train Your Staff: Equip your team to handle customer inquiries, returns, and exchanges with confidence. Empowering employees to resolve common issues without escalating them to management ensures a smoother experience.
  • Create Relaxation Zones: If space allows, set up a designated area where customers can take a moment to relax and regroup. This simple gesture can significantly reduce holiday stress for your shoppers.
  • Share Tips for a Stress-Free Holiday: Use in-store displays, newsletters, or social media to share practical tips for managing holiday stress. Offer advice on organizing gifts, managing holiday finances, or even dealing with holiday shopping crowds.
  • Complimentary Gift Wrapping: Offering free gift wrapping is a thoughtful service that reduces stress for your customers and keeps them coming back.
  • Play Soothing Music: Gentle, festive music can set a calming atmosphere and put customers at ease.

6. Finish the Year Strong by Reflecting on the True Meaning of Christmas

While holiday sales are important for a successful year-end, it’s also crucial to reflect on the deeper meaning of Christmas. As a small business owner, taking time to pause and reflect on your blessings will help you maintain perspective during the busy season.

“I bring you good tidings of great joy, which will be to all people. For there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.”
– Luke 2:10-11

By staying grounded and focused on the true reason for the season, you’ll finish the year not only with strong holiday sales but also with a sense of peace and fulfillment.

Plan for Christmas Charity Now

It’s 135 days until Christmas. You may be wondering why I am writing about Christmas in the middle of August. The summer days are hot, and school children are preparing to start back to school. Christmas is 4 ½ months away. So, why am I talking about Christmas charity now? There are several goods reason to plan for Christmas giving this month.

Now is the time to decide how much your budget will allow you to give and spread your donations over the next several months. Planning for your charity is much easier on your wallet than making all your donations in December. If you plan to pack Christmas boxes for Operation Christmas Child (https://www.samaritanspurse.org/what-we-do/operation-christmas-child/), decide now how many boxes you will fill and the gender and age of the children for whom you will pack boxes. Keep an eye out for items and purchase them when on sale and as your budget allows. When school supplies go on sale this month, grab extra to add to the packages going overseas for the children. It’s not too early to buy new toys to donate to Toys for Tots (https://www.toysfortots.org/default.aspx) or save money to contribute to the Salvation Army’s Angel Tree program (https://salvationarmynca.org/angeltree/.

Pray thoughtfully about how you can participate in supporting these organizations. Can your business place a collection bin for Toys for Tots? Can you promote Operation Christmas Child to your church and organize the shoebox collection? Can you share information about Prison Fellowship’s Angel Tree program with others in your church and your network of friends? (https://www.prisonfellowship.org/about/angel-tree/angel-tree-christmas/) These activities do not cost money but require an investment of time. Now is the time to register as a collection site and order resources to promote the programs you wish to support this year.

Volunteer time at one of these charitable organizations. It takes many volunteers to sort presents, check shoeboxes, and deliver gifts. If God puts a burden on your heart to get more actively involved, be obedient. Most of these organizations are actively soliciting volunteers year-round. Application forms are available online now so that they can make plans and train volunteers.

Actions you can take right now:

  1. Order shoeboxes and promotional materials for Operation Christmas Child from Samaritan’s Purse.
  2. Register to be a Salvation Army Angel.
  3. Donate money to Prison Fellowship’s Angel Tree program.
  4. Shop for new toys to donate to Toys for Tots.
  5. Volunteer to help an organization and begin any training required.

Remember that Christian charity should be year-round, not just during the holiday season. Our schedules stay full, and adding charity to our time requires planning ahead. As you are able, make donations to local food pantry ministries to feed the hungry, give to One Simple Wish (https://www.onesimplewish.org/) to make wishes come true for kids in foster care, write letters to soldiers to let them know you appreciate their service and send them through We Are Here (https://www.operationwearehere.com/ideasforsoldierscardsletters.html), and send children to summer camp through Prison Fellow or the Salvation Army.

As you bless those in need in tangible ways, God will use your donations of money and time to be His hands extended. Your kindness might be the key to letting someone know they are not forgotten, and God loves them. There is no greater gift you can give someone than helping them to open their heart to God and accepting His free offer of forgiveness of sins and eternal life

My book Honoring God with Your Money provide more information about how to decide which charities to support and how much you can afford to donate.

Biblical Guidelines for Helping Others

In Matthew 25, Jesus spoke to His followers about how important it is to show compassion and help those in need. He specified that we should help those who are hungry, thirsty, sick, imprisoned, in need of clothing, and foreigners. Jesus spoke of rewards for those who showed compassion by providing food, water, clothes, care, shelter, and companionship. However, nowhere did Jesus say we should simply hand out money to the poor and needy.

5 young people helping others by providing food, clothes, medicine, and love

There are many people today who are advocating giving monetary payments to people who are low-income earners, homeless, or at risk of becoming homeless. Just this week, some politicians in Oregon proposed a $1,000 per month to such individuals. While it is hoped that this money will be used for food and shelter, there are no restrictions on how it can be spent. While this plan is well-intentioned, it is riddled with flaws, because it does not follow Biblical guidelines for helping those in need.

In both the Old and New Testaments, the Bible encourages generosity toward those who are genuinely in need. At the same time, it discourages helping those who are able to work and provide for themselves but choose to be idle.

First and foremost, we are instructed to help members of our families who are in need, particularly the widows. We can read in 1 Timothy 5:3-4, “Give proper recognition to those widows who are in need. But if any widow has children or grandchildren, let them first learn to show piety at home and to repay their parents, for this is good and acceptable before God.” If the widow has no family and if she is older and unable to provide for herself, then the church is instructed to step in.

But, what does the Bible say about helping other people?

  1. We should meet their immediate needs with food, water, clothing, shelter, and companionship, as Jesus instructed. 1 John 3:17 warns us against seeing a brother in need and not helping meet that need. “If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person?”
  2. We are commanded to provide opportunities for the poor and foreigners to work and provide for themselves and their family members. In Leviticus 19:9-10, the Lord commands the Israelites, “When you reap the harvest of your land, do not reap to the very edges of your field or gather the gleanings of your harvest. Do not go over your vineyard a second time or pick up the grapes that have fallen. Leave them for the poor and the foreigner. I am the Lord your God.” Notice, however, that the poor and needy were not given handouts. They were given access to the fields and vineyards, where food was available. But they had to do the harvesting themselves. They were able to eat because they did the work.
  3. In the book of Ruth, we see this principle in action. Ruth, a young widow provides for her widowed mother-in-law, Naomi, by going out to the fields and gleaning wheat. When Boaz, the field owner and a near relative of Naomi, saw her working, he told his men to leave more wheat for her to glean. He did not give her money or even provisions, but he made it easier for Ruth to provide for herself and Naomi. He also provided her with sustenance while she was in the fields working.
  4. In the fourth chapter of 2 Kings, we read a story about a poor widow whose two sons were going to be sold to pay her debts. God provided assistance through Elisha. Elisha did not pay the woman’s debts; instead, he instructed her to collect jars from her neighbors. Then he instructed her to pour the small amount of oil she had into the jars. The oil filled every jar. The woman could sell the oil to pay her debts and redeem her sons. God provided a miracle in that the oil did not run out until she had enough to sell. However, she had to make the effort to collect jars, pour the oil, and sell the oil.
  5. We are instructed to not help those who are lazy and refuse to work. In fact, God promises that such people will be poor. “Those who work their land will have abundant food, but those who chase fantasies will have their fill of poverty.” Proverbs 28:19

God blessed Ruth and Boaz for their obedience, Ruth for working, and Boaz for leaving gleanings for the poor. They married and raised a family. Among their descendants were King David and Jesus Christ, our Savior. God also blessed the widow who obeyed and followed with the work Elisha told her to do.

Providing the poor and needy with opportunities to work and be productive is God’s plan for taking care of them. Those who cannot work do need to be cared for, but most people are able to do some type of work. Work produces self-esteem and confidence, as well as independence and financial freedom.

Perhaps those legislators in Oregon should take a second look at their plan. How can they assist homeless people in getting job skills that will allow them to escape perpetual poverty and homeless? Giving them unrestricted money will help some for the moment, but it is not a lasting solution.

When you are given the opportunity to help someone in need, pray and seek God’s solution. God will always make a way.

If you grapple with how to help others and whether to give to charitable causes, my blogs on generosity can provide you with godly guidance.

To learn more about how to honor God with your money and build treasure in Heaven, please click the Finances categories tab to find many blogs on money management, budgeting, and stewardship. My book Honoring God with Your Money is a great tool for financial money management.

Serving for God’s Glory

We live in a challenging time.  Concern about coronavirus and new health issues, such as monkeypox, is high.  Inflation is skyrocketing, social issues are dividing our country, violence and drug use at rampant, and people are concerned about their futures. Yet, in the midst of all the strife and chaos, it is possible to have peace in your hearts and live a life full of purpose.

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My sense of peace and purpose come from my relationship with Jesus Christ. As I seek Him and turn to Him in my times of trouble, the Holy Spirit fills me with “the peace that passes understanding.” (Philippians 4:7)  I, in turn, have a responsibility to share the love of Jesus Christ with those around me.

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Jesus calls His followers to be faithful stewards of that which he has entrusted to us.  Faithful stewardship demands that I view all that I have as belonging to God.  The resources that I have been given to me by God and are to be used according to His wishes. 

Knowing how God wants to me to use those resources requires that I read God’s Word and spend time in prayer. As I do, God will reveal to me His plans and purpose for my life.  We know from God’s Word that He intends for us to share our resources with those who are less fortunate than us.  So, we give to charitable organizations, such as the Salvation Army and Samaritan’s Purse.

Today, we need to do more than make donations and let someone else take care of the poor and needy. We each must earnestly seek God and His direction.

In the book of 1 Peter 4:7-11, we read about how we can be faithful stewards.  This passage is from The Message:

“Everything in the world is about to be wrapped up, so take nothing for granted. Stay wide-awake in prayer. Most of all, love each other as if your life depended on it. Love makes up for practically anything. Be quick to give a meal to the hungry, a bed to the homeless—cheerfully. Be generous with the different things God gave you, passing them around so all get in on it: if words, let it be God’s words; if help, let it be God’s hearty help. That way, God’s bright presence will be evident in everything through Jesus, and he’ll get all the credit as the One mighty in everything—encores to the end of time. Oh, yes!”

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Give cheerfully and generously.  Speak God’s words.  Help in the way God directs you.

Be a faithful steward who calls attention to the Lord.  Point people to Jesus.

Only through the blood of Jesus Christ can the world find the peace we so loudly claim to desire.

And do all for the glory of God.

Being God’s Arms Extended

In our church, we often use the phrase “God’s arms extended.” We use this when speaking about reaching out into our community and sharing God’s love through service, ministry, and prayer.

To my knowledge, the phrase “God’s arms extended” does not appear in the Bible. However, Jesus expressed the importance of doing this in Matthew 25: 31- 46. He was teaching His disciples about things that will happen when He returns to rule over the earth.

“When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his glorious throne. All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats.  He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left.” Matthew 25: 31 – 34

Jesus explains that those who offered food and drink to the hungry and thirsty, extended hospitality to the stranger, clothed those in need, cared for the sick, and visited the imprisoned are the sheep. Those who failed to extend assistance and compassion are the goats. Those who cared for others will receive eternal life, and those who did not will receive eternal damnation.

We had a missionary, Mark, speak in our church on Sunday. He shared that early in his ministry in Africa, he had not learned enough of the language to preach and teach. For a time, Mark was limited to embracing children and engaging them in sports. He began to get discouraged that he could not do more. As he prayed, Mark said something along the lines of, “All I can do is hug the children.” In his spirit, Mark clearly heard the Lord say, “Thank you.”

Mark realized that when we, as God’s people, show love to others, we allow God to show love through us. As Mark hugged the children, he was allowing God to wrap His arms around these precious little ones. Mark was literally being God’s arms extended.

What a beautiful picture! God wants to provide for the hungry, thirsty, needy, sick, and imprisoned. And, He does provide through us.

The next time you see someone in need, afraid, or discouraged, I pray that this illustration will come to mind and that you will take the opportunity to be God’s arms extended.

Please feel free to share an instance in which you knew that God was using you to be His hands extended.

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Thanking Those Who Provide Service


My life was made much easier during the past year and a half by those who did not have the option of working from home and social distancing.  Grocery clerks, postal workers, delivery people, truck drivers, and many other were out in the public every day so that the rest of us had access to the things we needed.  Thanksgiving is a great opportunity to thank those who sacrificed for the rest of us. 

Here’s some ideas to show appreciation:
1) Hand-written note.  Do you know that is takes only about 3 minutes to write a thoughtful, sincere thank you note?  Set aside time each week between now and Thanksgiving to write a couple of thank you notes to those who have most impacted your life during covid. If you will mail your cards, allow extra time as postal deliveries are taking longer than in the past.

2) Gift cards.  Consider purchasing gift cards for those who provide services to you regularly. Gift cards can be included with thank you notes, or you can write a quick “thank you for your service” message on the card. Of course, budget for the gift cards and stick to your budget. A sincere thank you is more important than the amount of the card.

3) Holiday tipping. Many of us tip those who provide service to us more at Christmas than at other times. This year, consider giving tips at Thanksgiving instead of, or in addition to, your Christmas tip. 

Thank you note and flowers
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As you take time this Thanksgiving to meditate on God’s blessings, ask Him to bring to your mind those who have made your covid-experience more comfortable. He will guide you to remember those who will be truly blessed by your heartfelt and sincere message that you have been blessed by their hard work and sacrifice.